My story started off innocent or so I thought. I am very much a romantic and give people a lot of chances…so I Dated a man for a couple of months. He broke it off. I was pretty upset at the time and tried to moved on. He came back so I saw him again. He used the faithful line ” I cant do a relationship but in time”. he had a few issues. And I lived away so when I came home, I met him. Fast forward a year, I moved back for a job & friends etc. I ask for a proper relationship. he says no. Finally finishes it as he doesnt love me and used me for sex and starts dating someone else. I was gutted obviously but started at this point to wake and smell the coffee. Months had passed, I was happy again and he came back saying he was sorry and loved me again. Low and behold, I started seeing him again. This time, He had a partner I was unaware of and I felt awful when I found out and I ended it. I finally moved on, met a guy and left it all behind. I made one final slip up with yer man again when I was with my current partner at the very start. Confessed everything to my partner and he forgave me. Im now happy, changed numbers etc months later. I always knew I was insecure in relationships and stayed with a jerk back then but I never realised what a psycho my ex really was until I found out he called me a stalker and a psycho following him around in pubs and was obsessed with him. Everything made sense, the dirty looks from friends etc…Apparently I appeared up in same places. I blame myself for not seeing it all a long time ago. I laughed when I heard it all as as I said everything made sense…at the end of the day, I am happy I am free from it all and he can call me all the bad names in the world! I always thought he had some problems but never realised what a crazy little shit he really was…moral of the story: Get out while you can & dont give someone a chance after they break your heart more than twice! Beware of psycho- not good for the stress levels!!

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